An extraordinary boyfriend who is dating one of the world's biggest porn stars has said he isn't bothered by her job and it hasn't affected their relationship in any way. He went on to reveal what it's like dating his woman.
Mike Adkins, 32, has been dating Allie Haze, 30, for the last four years after being introduced by a mutual friend. Allie is the star of a string of famous adult-movies - including Star Wars XXX: A Porn Parody where she plays a more sexually adventurous version of Princess Leia. Yet, in spite of her controversial job, Mike says he wasn't intimidated the first time they had sex.
Allie has worked in the porn industry for more than 8 years and has starred in over 350 porn films. Mike knows this and he doesn't mind, neither does he pressure her to change her job. Most surprisingly, he says doesn't feel jealous that Allie has sex with other men and women every day. He also revealed that he has told his mum what Allie does for a living.
Mike, who lives with Allie in Las Vegas, said: "I didn't feel intimidated having sex with a porn star. I really didn't look at it that way. I just look at her as a person. But yeah, she is definitely the more adventurous of partners I've ever had. It doesn't bother me that she's with other men as far as work. If it was something where she was just like, 'I'm going out Friday night, going to hook up with some people,' that would 100% bother me.
"There are times that she has been offered to do certain movies or whatever and I am just not very comfortable. I mean, yeah, it's a different job than being a receptionist or something, but at the end of the day you can't base a relationship around each other's career."
Mike was not aware of Allie's career when they first met, and although it came as quite a shock, he admits that he found it 'pretty cool'. Mike has never been on set with Allie, he says whilst he caught glimpses of her videos in the very early stages of their relationship, he soon stopped watching them when things began to get more serious.
He said: "I don't watch her videos. Nothing against them I've just got her right beside me so I don't feel the need to."
Allie added: "Yeah when we first got together he didn't really realise - like knowing I'm an adult film star is one thing, and then knowing how popular I am and how active I am - he didn't know a lot of that."
The couple claim that they avoid talking about what Allie has done on set in detail - although she will occasionally use it to her advantage by discussing her job when she returns home so as to get him turned on.
Allie said: "Definitely before I leave, Mike is always like, 'What are you working on today?' and I'm like,'Oh, boy-girl, girl-girl'.
"When I come home from work, we don't necessarily talk about the day. But it depends too, like as a woman and as a spouse, I know what would turn him on. So yeah, maybe I come home and tell him stories to my advantage to get some, sometimes. Depends on what the scene is. I know what he likes to hear about. Maybe he gets annoyed with the fact that I want to have sex all the time but other than that, I think we're pretty good."
Mike admits that he was nervous when he had to tell his mother about Allie's profession not knowing how she would respond.
He said: "I called my mom and I left her a message and said, 'Hey, I've actually been dating this girl and I've got to tell you something'. My mom called me back and I was like, 'Yeah she's a porn star' and my mom said, 'Oh my God! Thank God! I thought you were going to tell me she was pregnant".
Allie has to get tested for potential STI's every 14 days. She says she loves her job and chooses her film sex partners carefully. Most of her porn partners are usually married to her colleagues. She said the porn stars like to marry among themselves but she prefers to date outside the industry.
"I choose my partners and most of them I work with are married with co-workers of mine. I love my job. I'm very very lucky and super blessed to have a career that I love going to," Allie said.
Mike said: "I love Allie very much, to the moon and back."
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